Archive for July, 2008

Kink isn’t a four letter word.

I never thought I was the type of person who’d be into kink, but prior to kicking off Random Screaming, I never thought I was the type of person to start blogging, yet here I am. And as much as I hate really talking about myself, here I am talking not just about myself, but [...]

Couple things.

1). Dude I talked about here? Perhaps I should have listened closer to K (who sent me the following text after reading the blog entry: Why r u wasting ur time?
Maybe I’m too trusting, or am too give people the benefit of the doubt. We finally talked on the phone and he was engaging and [...]

Why dating guys sucks

The following entry is dedicated to one of my favorite bloggers, a guy named Karsh, based out of Atlanta, who cracks me up and seemingly suffers from the same dating woes as I. Pray for both of us.
What is it with dudes? As much as I hear my straight women friends complain about how difficult [...]

Three’s Company

I had a threesome once. I met this really fucking hot rockabilly dude at a bookstore. Slicked back greaser hair, crisp new Levi’s, white t-shirt. It was like he was an extra from Happy Days. We were looking at books in the car section, me because I like cars, and him because he was a [...]

Back on the scene

So, if you’ve been paying close attention, you’ll already know that I’ve had a crazy past few days. But with that behind me, I’m ready to deal with what lies ahead. I go through these periods where I become a serial dater and am always on the go, and other times, I lay back in [...]

Papa, can you hear me?

You’d think that not being able to come out to my father as planned would have devastated me. True, I’m saddened, especially having gone from thinking I’d never come out to him to wanting to beat the door down and jump out with a flamenco band behind me in just over a month’s time is [...]

These things only happen to me, y’know…

So, I just got off the phone with dear old Daddio to confirm that he’d be home this weekend and not tell him about my butt plugs or my unnatural and intense like of the fashion garment known as the wrestling singlet, when he shares with me that he will in fact, NOT be home. [...]

Five things I’m NOT telling my father tomorrow:

In light of my historic revelation to my dear old dad tomorrow (and partly because I need to lighten the mood with writing about all of this), today’s post includes five things that I’m absolutely NOT telling him. Don’t you think coming out is enough? Here goes!

I made out with a guy (actually we did [...]

Quickie

I’m exhausted. Honestly. I’m so freaking tired, I can’t stand it. This week has been a doozy. Knowing that in 48 hours, I’m gonna sit Daddio down and tell him, what’s been on my mind and in my heart for 35 years really takes an emotional toll. I’m looking forward to getting this out and [...]

To sleep, perchance to dream

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I’m not one of these fags who goes all butt-in-the-air over straight guys. A film school chum of mine had this thing where he ONLY pursued straight men. He’d find them online, or out and about and had a fling with a married guy that lasted a good six [...]