Something happened last week that really got me thinking. No, it wasn’t the sexy hip-hopper with the perfect little mouth from Miami I made out with, although that certainly gives one pause. No, it was seeing an old friend who is sweet and lovable; a Midwestern white girl who is creative, funny, and talented as [...]

“Why don’t you come over? I’ll leave the door unlocked, and if you come around the side of my house by my bedroom window, root around for a bit. Like you’re checking the meter, or you’re trying to find out whether or not I fell asleep.
Then let yourself in. I’ll be blindfolded with one of [...]

I have this really stupid thing I do when it comes to guys. One so stupid, I can’t believe I’m actually going to share it here. But if I can tell you about how much I find Adam’s apples sexy as hell, nerdy guys in wrestling singlets are hot, and that I got caught beating [...]

By now, I think most gay men have read the really compelling feature article, “Has Manhunt Destroyed Gay Culture” in a recent issue of Out magazine by journalist Michael Joseph Gross on gay men and their use of online “dating” sites. As a gay man who has used these “dating” sites, I can’t help but [...]

Before I even get started, let me say that I think Dr. Drew and the radio show Loveline provide a valuable service. I’ve listened to it forever, and  in some respects is partly responsible for me taking a stance and willing to put my own wares out on display via Random Screaming. But with that [...]

I never thought I was the type of person who’d be into kink, but prior to kicking off Random Screaming, I never thought I was the type of person to start blogging, yet here I am. And as much as I hate really talking about myself, here I am talking not just about myself, but [...]

I had a threesome once. I met this really fucking hot rockabilly dude at a bookstore. Slicked back greaser hair, crisp new Levi’s, white t-shirt. It was like he was an extra from Happy Days. We were looking at books in the car section, me because I like cars, and him because he was a [...]

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I’m not one of these fags who goes all butt-in-the-air over straight guys. A film school chum of mine had this thing where he ONLY pursued straight men. He’d find them online, or out and about and had a fling with a married guy that lasted a good six [...]

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Calling all questions! Need some advice as it pertains to the sexy times? How to ask that guy out? Determine whether or not you’re a lesbian? Can’t get rid of that loser dude who can’t take a hint? Do bisexuals really exist?
Bring your head-scratching puzzlement to me! I’ll be [...]

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I was recently talking to a straight female friend of mine. She’s gorgeous, a couple of master’s degrees on her wall, killer sense of humor, and much to my dismay, horny as hell.  Now, if this were me, more than likely, I’d scroll through my telephone contacts, call up a bud and [...]