So here’s the thing. I’m gay. Okay, you probably knew that. And as such, I’m not saying this applies to me…maybe it does, but gay guys I think tend to have more sex than non-gay guys. And only because non-gay guys, aka heterosexual guys, usually have sex with women. If women had sex as much [...]

I didn’t coin the phrase Keep It Real, (although I’m absolutely certain I came up with TMI as a moniker for Too Much Information), but I do rock KIR as an acronym for the oft-said phrase. And today’s post will deal with some people who need to do just that, KIR, when it comes to [...]

Oh, straight men. How thou confuseth us. Well, not me, really. There are a lot of gay men out there who covet you hetero boys because we always seem to want what we can’t have. If you would just give us five minutes of your time, we’d drop our bottom jaws like rattlesnakes and give [...]

The first in an occasional post directed to my fellow gay men whom sometimes need a little direction.
This is going out to all my fellow homos and queers. I love you. You know I do. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be writing and trying to give you all some sage advice on the regular. With [...]

Before I even get started, let me say that I think Dr. Drew and the radio show Loveline provide a valuable service. I’ve listened to it forever, and  in some respects is partly responsible for me taking a stance and willing to put my own wares out on display via Random Screaming. But with that [...]

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I’m not one of these fags who goes all butt-in-the-air over straight guys. A film school chum of mine had this thing where he ONLY pursued straight men. He’d find them online, or out and about and had a fling with a married guy that lasted a good six [...]

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I was recently talking to a straight female friend of mine. She’s gorgeous, a couple of master’s degrees on her wall, killer sense of humor, and much to my dismay, horny as hell.  Now, if this were me, more than likely, I’d scroll through my telephone contacts, call up a bud and [...]

Just needed to get this off my chest because I feel like I find myself saying this over and over again.
My straight male friends: I love you. I do. My father is straight, as is my brother. Being straight, you like cootch and that’s cool. Feel free to have at the allotment of cootch that [...]

Let it be known, that I am an ass man. What can I say? I like a nice butt. I like to play with them, spend time with them, worship them, and eat them like peaches. That being said, I’d like to share some information that might not be common knowledge to the general population [...]

As interactive as I’d like this site to become, I’ve been thinking about why in the hell I might be qualified to engage in a discussion about sex and relationships, especially since I’ve rarely done relationships, and also because I’m not straight. Well, I’d like to think that as a gay man, that fact helps [...]